Christmas Dreaming Amidst Broken Dreams

“I’m dreaming of a white Christmas.” That’s how the song goes. We all have dreams for our lives – dreams of not only our holidays, but of what every day of our future will look like.

I’ll bet that Joseph had dreams.

He had reached adulthood, learned a trade, was betrothed to a young woman named Mary who, if she found favor with the Lord, must have been a devoted and godly Jew.

I imagine he had dreams of a simple life – a future plying his trade in Nazareth, building a home with his wife and raising sons and daughters to love the Lord.

Joseph’s humble gentleness is evidenced by the fact that when his dreams began to unravel – his betrothed is found to be with child and Joseph, more than anyone, knows this child is not his own – he does not seek to “expose Mary to public disgrace but has in mind to divorce her quietly.”

This is a good man. This is a man of integrity. But this is also a man who sees his life’s dream slip from his grasp in a moment.

But God also has dreams for us. He is our Father and we are His idea and so it comes as no surprise that He should have dreams for our lives.

While Joseph is asleep, an angel of the Lord appears to him in a dream and assures him that Mary’s child is of the Holy Spirit, that she is carrying the long-awaited Messiah of his people and that Joseph has a part in this plan that will change the world.

So, Joseph does what the angel commands and takes Mary home to be his wife. Things are not playing out in accordance with his original dreams. No man dreams of taking a wife home and “having no union with her” until she gives birth to someone else’s child. No man dreams of hearing whispers about his wife in the tavern or having the locals hide their glances when he passes. No man dreams of starting a new life under a cloud of public suspicion and derision.

No man dreams of traveling with his pregnant wife to a distant city under government edict and having little money and no place for her to rest. No man dreams of making a bed of hay among the livestock when it comes his wife’s time to deliver his first child. No man dreams of this but this was God’s dream for Joseph.

Of course, Joseph could never have dreamed that a star would appear in the heavens to herald the birth of his firstborn son nor that a choir of angels would make the birth announcement to shepherds who would seek him out and offer their worship to the little one swaddled and cradled in his young wife’s arms. Nor could he have dreamed of the danger the little one was in or the adventure on which they would embark to protect him, this baby whom the God of the Heavens entrusted into Joseph’s earthly care.

This was a dream he could not have dreamed but in surrendering to God’s plan for his life, Joseph lived a better dream.

This is true for us all. If we surrender to Him our dreams for ourselves, we awaken to His dreams for us and live out the story He wrote for our lives which is one thread woven into a greater story – one that will be told into eternity.

I Corinthians 1:9 says this: “No eye has seen, no ear has heard, no mind has conceived what God has prepared for those who love him.”

Joseph loved God and found a life he could never have dreamed for himself.

Do you have dreams? Have you seen dreams crushed and lost? Are you willing to surrender your dreams to live the dream God has for you? Maybe this year, instead of dreaming of a white Christmas, you can dream His dream for your life.

“This is how the birth of Jesus Christ came about: His mother Mary was pledged to be married to Joseph, but before they came together, she was found to be with child through the Holy Spirit. Because Joseph her husband was a righteous man and did not want to expose her to public disgrace, he had in mind to divorce her quietly. But after he had considered this, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said, “Joseph son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife, because what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins.” All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had said through the prophet: “The virgin will be with child and will give birth to a son, and they will call him Immanuel”—which means, “God with us.” When Joseph woke up, he did what the angel of the Lord had commanded him and took Mary home as his wife. But he had no union with her until she gave birth to a son. And he gave him the name Jesus.” Matthew 1:18-25

Tell a piece of your story here. If you saw a dream crushed or broken and then found God’s better dream for your life – encourage others by sharing it here. We all need encouragement in these days and times, don’t we?

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*Those of you who have been with my blog from the beginning will recognize this post from last December. It was very popular and I think in these difficult times, it’s a message that bears repeating. Thank you for bearing with me!
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  1. Phoenix says:

    When I read your post.. I wanted to cry. I also wanted to say..”who knew” that after this long out of school as kids, that you and I would be brought back together.. here.. to laugh, cry and encourage those in the Body.

    I sit here today.. with all of my dreams and hopes seemingly crushed and ended. I have nothing left.. nothing that I own really and nothing of ‘me’.. I am emptied out.

    Today, the LORD has been close and I felt HIM almost having an excitement about Him.. a smile He could not hold back.. joy He could not contain.. I have felt a Spirit of Expectancy…

    I just read a word from Elaine Televocci from Identity Network and.. it’s GIFT time. Not only Christmas.. but in the SPIRIT.. It’s time the Son of GOD unwraps His People and His Glory in them to give to a broken, desperate and desolate world. I in myself have nothing to offer them.. but now… I see that the past is over and all that I have seen crushed has been to prepare me.. US.. for the Son of GOD to fill us with HIMSELF to present ONCE AGAIN for the healing of the Nations.. REVIVAL.. “COME FORTH IN JESUS NAME!” <3